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Listen to your body's Newsletter
Newsletter #9
May/June 2008
Dear Monica 

For the past few months, Lise has been busy writing her next book (sorry... it's in French) and she's almost finished. She's getting ready to go to Moscow in a couple of weeks to give lectures, interviews and workshops. I will then meet her in Paris and we'll leave for Croatia to spend a week with a hundred of our customers and some of our colleagues. I can't wait! Each year, we organize a trip where we teach every morning and then relax or visit the area in the afternoons. It's a great way to travel and work on ourselves. Next year, it's a cruise down the Nile. If you understand French, you are welcome to join us (or bring along your French/English interpreter). If not, just wait a couple of years and we'll offer trips in English!

Enjoy your read,
Monica Shields
CEO
In This Issue
Did you know that...
Testimonial
Great News!
I want to cut down!
Did you know that...
 

... treating back pain costs over thirty billion dollars per year in the US? In the past ten years, the incidence of back pain has increased by 10%. More than 70% of the US population experiences various degrees of back pain, the cause of which is not known in 85% of the cases. No single origin of the complaint has been identified.

 

Back pain often recurs, even after surgery.

 

If you suffer from back pain, here are some metaphysical causes... 

  • you bear on your back something that does not belong to you
  • you feel responsible for someone else's happiness/misery
  • your back is saddled with a situation or a person
  • or, finally, you are among those who feel burdened with debt or can no longer cope with financial hardships

What message are you receiving from your body? Above all, this message should not involve additional self-blame or intention to change. Instead, your body tells you to give yourself the right to take on more than you need to, for the time being, and to accept that you don't yet know how to consider your needs before those of others, fearing that if you do, people will think you heartless or selfish. I remind you that seeing to your own needs first means self-care, and this is far from being selfish (which means expecting others to give precedence to your needs rather than their own).

 

Be aware of your great heart and good intentions and tell your body that, one day, you will love yourself well enough to allow yourself to receive more love.

 

With love,

 

Lise Bourbeau

Upcoming workshops
with Lise Bourbeau
St-Jerome, Canada
 
June 21-22 2008: Listen to your body

June 23-24: Listen To Your Needs

June 26-27: Inner Dialog

June 28-29: Discover And Trust Your Inner Feelings

June 30 - July 1st: Self-Confidence

 
Arbon, Switzerland
 
November 13: Conference
November 15-16: Listen to your body
November 17-18: Use the body to learn to let go
November 20-21: Listen To Your Needs
November 22-23: Inner Dialog
November 25-26: Discover And Trust Your Inner Feelings
November 27-28: Self-Confidence 

(click on any workshop name to read it's description) 

 
Testimonial  
Hello Lise,
 
A few years ago, I participated in several of your workshops in France, and they changed my life.
 
I have since taken my life in my own hands: I live in a dream-place and I have met the man of my life! I now need only to achieve my professional goal: "To serve and generously share my ideals with others." While I still have some difficulty in attaining this goal, I know all is possible.
 
I don't have the right words to express the value of your teaching. It has saved my life.

I want to offer this message to all those who are trying to know themselves and find the means to truly enjoy life: "Lise is a magician of unconditional love, which turns everything into joy and success."
 
I THANK YOU AND ALL YOUR TEAM FOR THE QUALITY OF YOUR TEACHING.

Roselyne (France)
 
Don't miss out!
Want to learn how to solve any relational or emotional problem?
The "Listen to your body" workshop promises to teach you loads of tools to better yourself and help you improve your relationships.
 
This workshop will only be given in English twice this year.
 

We've been helping people for more than 25 years now. We are delighted to teach a philosophy of life that really makes a difference in everyone's life. We hope to have a chance to help you too!

 
Sincerely,
 

Monica Shields
Listen to your body
 
Great News!
 

Our popular "Listen to your Body" book is already available in 16 languages and the 17th has just been confirmed ... none other than Chinese! Good work, Lise!
This book, which has helped so many people, will now be available in the most populous country in the world (more than 1.3 billion people!).
I want to cut down!

Our physical addictions are mere reflections of our emotional ones. It is important that we should be aware of this because we may try hard to cut down on smoking or on certain foods but, in fact, as long as our emotional yearning is not checked, our "controlled" physical craving will be replaced with another. This explains why people who quit smoking often start eating candies or something else.
 
We can become aware of our physical addictions in two ways. The first is to try to deprive ourselves of our respective compulsion for a week. If after only a few hours, however, we start to have a craving, the compulsion is significant. The second way is to observe how serious the consequences of this addiction are. For example, if it affects your health, family life, or profession, the addiction is critical.  
 
Our physical addiction is directly related to our lack of self-love.
 
We love ourselves so little that we expect to receive love from others. However, no one on earth has the mission to ensure the happiness of others, so our expectations are not generally met and we are frequently deceived and furious. It is at this moment that we are trying, unconsciously, to compensate with a form of physical addiction, because we believe that it will replace the person who is expected to love us.     
We must understand that no one can give us what we cannot give ourselves. This means that, however hard others might try to help us, it is useless because we can feel genuine love only if we love ourselves.  
 
To conclude, the only way to reduce physical addiction is by increasing the amount of love you give yourself, which means to accept who you are at all times, no judgment and no criticism; to admit that you have your limits, like everyone else, and to stop being so hard on yourself.